Can I be obnoxious?
Can I be snide?
Can I be funny?
Can I make jokes?
Can I be ok?
Can I heal and break?
Can I move forward and stay in the present?
Can I add snark to my cereal?
Can I be more than sadness?
Can I gift myself grace?
Can I be angry?
Can I find acceptance?
Can I be me?
Categories: Culture, death, identity, mental health, Psychology, society
psychologistmimi 
SMiLes Dear Miriam
my Advice Is Similar
To The Ice Princess
‘Elsa’ From the Disney
Movie ‘Frozen’
“LET IT GO”
LET IT ALL GO
BE ALL OF YOU AND
DON’T REPRESS ANY PART…
Hehe It’s True the Waitress At the iHop Breakfast
Restaurant Said Her Daughter Saw All 244 Pounds
Of This Oldish Man Fixing to Reach 63 Years Old on June 6th
As ‘Elsa’ The Pretty Princess From ‘Frozen’
Yes Hehe Her Very Young Daughter Said
i Looked Like ‘Elsa’ From ‘Frozen’ Dancing
So Gracefully Indeed Like i Was Ice Skating
On Walmart Newly Renovated Glassy Floors
It Was Actually One of the Best Compliments i Could
Have Received As More Often The Way i Moved Before
i Started Dancing
Most of my Life
Was Like A Dizzy
Fly Lost Inside my
Head Separated From
Physical Intelligence
That is Also Emotional
Intelligence With All Feelings
And Senses From Head To Toe
Yes Let it Go And Be Comfortable
In Your Mind Body SPiRiT HeART SoUL Whole
Don’t Repress Any Part All Emotions/Senses are Useful
For Change in Life Yet of Course in No Way Am i Suggesting
What You Should Do This is Only What i Did to Reach LoVE iN Peace Now…
Other Than That Life is A Great Adventure DarK Thru LiGHT All Parts of Us
Create the
UNiVeRSE
Whole No
Part less
Integral Than Whole..:)
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Fully being yourself is a luxury – I hope you get to do it at least for a while.
For me, I worry about what I’d be like to care for in the nursing home if my filters are gone – I know how bad and snarky and cutting I CAN be, keep it under tight control around other people most of the time. But I worry about how I’ll get along if I lose the ability to control it. I’ve been trying most of my life to be nicer, and it is still a huge struggle.
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To me, you seem very nice and have shared comforting words. Thank you!
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That’s sweet of you – I believe in the principles, and work to make the efforts.
Maybe that’s all any of us have, but I’ve known some people (my husband’s mother was one) who are just nice. It seems part of them, not a reining in of stray desires. Maybe I never knew her well enough; we didn’t spend that much time together. But I like to think she was just as sweet as she appeared, and FIL was also a nice person but (possibly telling) very sure of how he wanted to do things.
I think we can CHOOSE to have the good responses – and that doing that as much as possible trains us to some extent. But then find I’m STILL dealing with the same stuff as when I was a child – and my mother was trying to teach me not to ‘let it all out.’ Possibly she overdid it.
I’m doing the best that I can – but am worried about what happens when something like dementia destroys my ability to choose in that department, and I revert.
I guess we’ll see.
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You can be, what you want and when you want…
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Hear hear!
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Oh, I’m sorry I don’t want you to be angry…
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Oh no. I’m not angry. Was just agreeing with you 🙂
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Thx, it’s only my simpel school english, so maybe I don’t understand the words between the words…….I can feel your pain, loosing a beloved human is such a big thing and feelings are overhelming, I know the words in german and without a translater I like to tell you, but sometimes I fail, but now I’m happy, that I don’t made a mistake, send you a big hug ❤
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