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My mourning walks

What are your daily habits?

There is a book called the Power of Habit – Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business by Charles Duhigg that explores the science behind habit creation and reformation. He does a great job explaining habit formation, and thus, I won’t go into this.

What I will say is that I’m a habit of creature, and it has done me well. I’ve created daily rituals that allow me to get through the day, be successful at work, and get fit. Once an idea becomes concrete in my brain and eventually habitualized, my psyche gets set.

I have my morning ritual, my evening bath, and to-do lists habits. I also have a daily exercise habit. For the past 20 years, I’ve tried to exercise every day. Obviously, covid and the like knocked me off course occasionally.

As I write this bit, I’m exercising. I’m on a 60-minute walk. The air quality is not the greatest. I am taking precautions. But I need to walk in the morning. I need to raise my heart rate. It’s become habitualized.

Nowadays, I find that my walking habit serves another purpose besides fitness. I call it my mourning walk. During these walks, I find myself at times processing my grief. Memories flood my mind. I may even shed a tear. But the movement and the air help me be in the moment as well as keep moving. Life continues, even while it’s hard. Even as I get tired at the 45-minute mark of my walk, I know I have to keep going in order to get home.

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  1. Nature’s Best Therapy
    Dear Miriam A Free Dance

    From Head to Toe Freeing Our
    Nature’s Escaping From the

    Modern MaLaDY

    Of Mother

    Nature’s

    Deficit Disorder
    Trapped Tween Two
    Ears And Plastered

    Like Wile E Coyote

    in A 6 Inch Dream
    And Scream of Screen

    Chasing The Road Runner
    AI American Dream Isn’t that
    The Condition of ‘The Condition’
    As Cartoons Come to Life in

    “Twilight Zones” Real

    Where the Hell is ‘Rod Serling’
    to Report on His Fruition…

    Anyway Like Guardian’s
    of the Galaxy Volume Whatever
    Suggested Some Folks Dance And

    Some
    Folks
    Do Not

    Do i Will
    To Truly BREaTHE Free…

    Slaving All the AI Tools Servant to me Hehe..;)

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  2. “The Body Keeps Score” Also the Name of A Book
    All About How Our Emotions Flow Through Our

    (Or Perhaps Get Trapped in Tensions Physically)

    Body So Yes to Get in Touch From Head to
    Toe When Moving Walking Dancing

    And Whatever Other Creative

    Movement in Tune of

    MuSiC oF the SoUL

    Regulating Emotions
    Integrating Senses in

    Synergy of All Feelings

    FLoWinG Through Every
    Cell And So Much Smaller and

    Larger Holistically Dear Miriam With SMiLes…

    When Peace Is Felt From
    Head to Toe Balancing

    FRiEnDS With Gravity

    Mind and Body SouL

    Whole the Positive Energy
    of Love to Focus in All We Do
    Comes Free to Be Yes in All We Do..:)

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  3. Taking the dog for a walk is a daily source of solace. Despite all the disappointments and heartaches and all the people passing away, I get one more day to be on a walk with the dog.

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