The White Lotus: Being cringey is back in vogue

Is cringey a word? Yes, I believe it is. I have seen it used a lot recently. And, in particular regarding the television show called White Lotus. There are a number of articles about the top cringe-worthy moments on the show. When I read those articles, I realized that I hadn’t used the word “cringe” in a rather long time. In a way, it’s interesting that cringiness is in vogue at the moment.

Cringiness, feelings thereof, are about extreme feelings of embarrassment and awkwardness. The show White Lotus shines a light on moments that cause extreme discomfort to the audience. This is so because it serves as a mirror. I can bet, regardless of gender or class or race, everyone watching it will find a moment that they have either seen, endured, or enacted in some way.

You have moments of unconscious biases rear their ugly head that remsin unconscious to the character. You have moments of snobiness attempting to come off as sophisticated. You have moments reflect some real interpersonal relations between couples.

As a result, millions of people watching this show are experiencing a collective cringey feeling. It actially amuses me to see and feel that cringe. This word and feeling had been absent from my life for a while. It actually may be good to again feel that sense of cringe. What we do with that feeling and self-reflection and insight (if so attained) is anyone’s guess in this moment in time where gaslighting is all the rage.

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    NeW iN Patterns Below For How Leaves Rise Green Fall Brown

    As Rivers of Sap Flow Upwards From Tree Roots ThiS Way Yes

    Yet STill A Tree is A River FLoWinG Reaching Leaves Higher Above

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    Attempt to Fit the River

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    At Least With DEAD Lines to Make of

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    When the River Flows And

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    Church, Home, And Commercial TV to Fit in of Course Hehe Yes

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    And Own The Naked Reality

    of Who i am i Don’t Need
    to ‘Know’ Any ‘Thing’


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    To Believe The River Must

    Wear All These ArtiFacts of
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    Over Several Thousand Years To Separate

    Us in All the Clothes And Tools We Become

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    i Threw

    Away the
    Divorce Papers

    From Nature and
    Said i Do Again Naked
    Enough Whole Complete i Flow New Now Free

    Removing Fig Leaf’s no Longer Makes me Cringe

    Thousand of Years of Dead Fig Leaf’s Indeed For Real…

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    i Am The River
    Water Waves
    Ocean Whole
    Naked Enough Whole Complete

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    They Should Review Again THeir
    Divorce Papers From Nature Hehe….

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    Go See the Opening of the ‘Avatar’ Movie to Probably ‘Get
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    my Best

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    And Publish the FLoWinG
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    Bi-Monthly of 60 Thousand or So Words
    With Tons of MultiMedia i Finished Writing
    On mY MoTher’s Birthday December 10, 2022

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    What the
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    Only An Avatar So Many
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