I have not written about my pet peeves or a particular pet peeve in a while. I’ve vacilitated between being stuck in a mud rut and being aspirational. Sometimes, both simultaneously. Today, I want to be peeved.
One of my biggest pet peeves ever is the ridiculous reesponse some people have to when one is sick. Many times I will hear “at least you probably lost weight”. I need to shake my head at that one.
More often than night, I will not have lost weight and I state so accordingly. They then are perplexed seemingly confused and thinking I’m a failure. I have a slow metabolism. Plus, losing weight while sick probably means I went through some bad stuff that put me in great potential harm. And even if I did lose weight, does that mean I get so sympathy?
This is no way to really try to comfort a sick person. Compassion should come before adhering to perhaps unhealthy standards of beauty.
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SMiLes Dear Psychologist Mimi i Hope You Are
Feeling Much Better Recovering From Your
Recent illness Honestly i Don’t Care
if You Lost Weight Or not
Or Even How Much You
Weigh at All You
Are Human
i Love All Humans
This is my Autistic
Savant Skill it is Just
What i Must Do As A Special
Interest of Life Naked, Enough,
Whole, and Complete It’s True i
See Through Flesh and Blood, i See
What’s Inside, i See the LiGHT, i See the DarK
too This is How Empaths Experience Life if They
Develop Enough Light Around them Not to Be Drained Away
to Something
Less and
Even Cold
And Lifeless too…
In Most Stuff Life Every
Commonly Understood Aphorism
For LiGHT May Also Shed DarK True
As My Sister Is A Somewhat Famous
Bird Nerd As That is Her ‘Special Interest’
And Stellar Skill on the Autism Spectrum As ‘Napoleon
Dynamite’ Asked His Young Female FRiEnD Then on
That Show What Her ‘Special Interest Skills” Were too
Yes a
“Play”
About
Folks
At Least
on A Broader
Autism Spectrum
too in Theatrical Way…
Anyway my Sister is A Record Setting
Bird Nerd Now in my State and Local Area
And Also Takes Wonderful Nature Photography
With Her Camera That Costs About As Much As Some
Used Cars Used too Before Recent Days at Least Hehe…
True Source of the Wonderful Bird Pics on my Blog too
So Generously Given And Shared By Her as Neither She
Or i Give A Damn About MaKinG Money Being Retired
And Having Enough Naked Whole is Just Plain Complete
No Extra
Ingredients
of Capitalism
Necessary to
Make Love of
Freedom Work for Us…
Anyway She Visited A Local State
Park And What i HaVE in Common
of Providing Sympathy for Your Illness
With You and A Group of Ladies on A Camping
Trip in a State Park She Went to Searching For
All Species of Birds is the Social Bonding General
Love For Humanity Neurohormone Oxytocin That
Works Wonders
To Actually Heal
Human Beings in
So Many Ways
Including
Increasing Human
Immune System Effectiveness;
Reducing Pain, and Anxiety too…
Truly A Wonder Drug This All
Natural Nurturing Neurohormone
is the Stuff that Bonds Baby to Breast
And Not So Much When it is only A Bottle
Or Even Less With Scarce Supplies of Formula these
Days too
*Sigh*
Anyway to my
Sister’s Chagrin
Oh my God This Group of Ladies
(With Campers all Decorated With Flowers)
Had A Flag Raised High With A “Q” For
the Whole State Park of Camping Group Ladies
To Join in on “Reindeer Games” As They Dance Sing Sharing
Not Only A Love for “Q” Yet Trump of Course for 2024 (YUCK)
So As my Sister Wandered By She Covertly Made the Sign of the
Cross and
Merrily
Went on
Her Ways
to Shoot Birds
With Only A Camera
Thank God
of NOT TRUMP
on 5th Avenue
Escapades As Such
Thing is What Bonds me to
You As Just A Human Being
Who Naturally Gives, Shares, Cares,
And Heals With Oxytocin Ways of Connection
When Others Are Ill With Real HeART Felt Sympathy;
Yes, Cognitive Empathy And Compassion too Is What
Bonds
The “Q”
Ladies and
‘Trump’ Ladies
The Same at the
Big Forest State Park
Where i Live It’s the Oldest
Religion Love and It Doesn’t Have
An Equity of Outcome in Only LiGHT
As Empathy May Be DarK or LiGHT
As There is DarK and LiGHT in Almost
Every Aspect of Life Even Negative And
Positive Synchroncities too Yes True There
Is the Opposite Affects of “Prayerful Placebo” For
Effects in Belief of Positive Outcomes As the ‘Nocebo’
Effect of ‘Debby Downer Life’ Too For Ill Outcomes Soon
Yet True Even A Darker Place of ‘REAL EVIL’ IN ACTION
TOO WHERE IT BECOMES VERY DIFFICULT TO HAVE
SYMPATHY FOR HUMANS IN DEVIL AND DEMON FORM TRUE
Yet Still The Inability to Feel Oxytocin Without A Warm Bond With Human
Beings Truly is A Worst Kind of ‘Mental Illness’ That Some Are Born With
Congenitally From Birth Yes the Meme and Reality of ‘Psychopathy’ Where
(Lack/Loss of Empathy/Conscience too)
Folks May Torture
Small Animals
As They Only
See them as Things
That Hurt Sharing
the Adrenaline of Their Pain
in Sick Delight and As Far As
Oxytocin Goes as i Measure it All Innately,
Instinctually, Intuitively ACross the Hundreds of Thousands
of Humans i Have Directly Interacted With Working With the
Military and General Public For Decades in Real Life and Playing
For Free With Thousands Upon Thousands of Folks Online Since
Thanks Giving Day of 2010 is the Most Nurturing of All Folks i Have
Met Are African
American
Grandmothers
i Am Sickened
Almost to Vengeful
Anger Over What Happened
in a Grocery Store to these True
Angels Who Walk the Earth Well
True They Are Among the Most Fortunate
Human Beings Who Walk on Earth to Feel
to Sense to Give to Share to Care and Heal
(Real ‘Jesus Folks’ Who Actually Walk(ed) THE EartH)
With So Much Warmth of LoVE iN Life As i Surely
Understand my Empath Privilege as i Lost it All And
Likely All that Kept me Changing into A True Villain
For 66 Months as Just Another Devil and Demon in HeLL ON EartH
Was My Lifelong Moral Code Same One Where the Administrators
in my High School
When i Was A Sophomore
Changed the Rules to Get
Into the National Honor Society
For me and A Young Woman Peer in School
True it was Always Junior Per Requirements
until me and her came along in School Her
Mother Was the Dean of Girls at the School
My Mother’s Name Was Just Love And
(And Or Helen that Means Light)
A Clerk Typist
Who Worked
for the
Federal
Government then
Whose Only Real
Goal in Life Was to
Raise Children of Love
(Singularly As Such after
my Father Ran Away to
Marry A Wife to Make
Money More than Raise
Children Of Love When i was 3;
How Very Fortunate i Was in the
Way of Love At Least That He Went
Away took me 53 Years to Get the
Fearless Inheritance of my Daddy for
Real as i had to be my own Father to
Do it *Sigh*)
As It Was Pretty Much
All Innate and Inherent
And An Intuitive Natural Humane Love to Do…
That True Not All Folks Share That True Some
Folks Don’t Even Have It As Gift At All i Have to
Be Careful never to turn into a Villain As Strong
As An Orangutan Empirically So Still Leg Pressing
Up to 1520 Pounds Sailing All 242 Pounds of Dancing
Man Through the Store Light As Feather Strong As A Locomotive
(i’m Sort of Attached to Earth FRiEnDS With Gravity in Balance
Hehe No Need to Leap Tall Buildings or Walk on Water to Show
Off Yes Floating on Terrestrial Land is Likely Enough HAha and
True i ain’t no Fool i Understand Physics
And The Speed of Bullets)
i Couldn’t Help Yet
Having A Dark
Fantasy that
i could Have
Been in that
Store And Sailed
Right into that ‘Demon’
And Shattered Him into
A Million Pieces of Oblivion
Yet i understand That’s Where
He Already Lives Dead as i’ve Been
to Oblivion too Fortunately my Mother
Gave me Love And Fortunately She
Didn’t Give me Guns For Christmas to Shoot Love…
(Or me With the REAL SUICIDE DISEASE FOR 66 Months)
Anyway Life is Very Messy And Always Worth the Effort
To Warm
Someone
Else Up
And
When We
See the Child
Who Sits Alone
At School It Can’t Hurt
to At Least Add a Word of Kindness to Their Life
True i’ve Been a Child Who No one wanted to
Sit Next to At Lunch i’ve Been That Adult too
At Work As Oddly Enough Working for
the Military And in ‘A Deep South State
Trump Town
USA’ Male
Kindness’
Was/Still is Practically
Considered A Mortal Sin…
Love Spreads or goes away….
If We Are Lucky Enough to Be Born With Love At all…
There Are Enough Tucker Carlson’s And Trump’s in
The World
Hell Needs
No Extra Fires
ContinuinG ON EartH…
Anyway Again Hope
You Are Feeling Better
Dear Psychologist Mimi
Everyone IS A FRiEnD to me
i Can’t Escape it As THere is
Literally A ‘FRED iN “FRiEnD” hehe…
Thanks As Always For allowing me to
Share This Forrest Gump Bus Stop With
You and in the Busy Health Care Field i
Surely Don’t Mind if You Just Read A Magazine
to Relax
or Peruse
Twitter While
i Story Tale Just
For the LiGHT And DarK of Life For Real…
Hell and Heaven And The Tween It’s All on the MeNu for Real
As ‘Big George’ Called Out to the Love of His Mother With A Boot
On his Throat…
Slowly
Suffocating
And Sure She
Is A Grandmother too…
Indeed Life Takes
GREAT Conviction
For Change Now
to Possibly HaPPeN
And Even More So Action
It’s True i Could Be A Valuable
Resource in a Store One Day too…
Yet i’m Even More Valuable to my Wife Alive…
Seeing
Smaller
And Bigger
Pictures it’s
What We All
Must Do in Life at Best it seems
To Survive and Potentially Even Thrive ToGeTHeR For Real..:)
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People are very clumsy at expressing concern and fear that expressing compassion will lead to malingering. Grrrr!
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Well, at least you probably got a weight off
your mind writing about it. (soz!) 😉
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Haha! Yes! Cheers
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My pet peeve about weight loss comments is this:”You look great! Have you lost weight?” The implications is that losing weight is desirable and will make me look better! I hate that. If I lose weight it is because I am unwell or stressed. I’m a skinny person to start off with and losing weight is NOT something I want to do.
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Completely understand and hear ya!
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