If you had to sum up your life philosophy in one sentence, what would it be?
My life philosophy has always been pretty simple: Just do it. I’ll survive. Why not go for it? What’s the worst that can happen?
But this past week, I developed a new philosophy. Sugary feet.
Here’s the backstory.
My son had a major classroom assignment. If he scored in the top five, he could skip his final. Apparently, this was a mother-son project, partly because it reminded him of when he was much younger and I had him in cooking class, where he would attempt to bake cookies.
Fast-forward 13 years. We were back in the kitchen, only this time the cookies were supposed to be awesome.
I found a New York Times recipe, ordered enough ingredients to feed a small bakery, and we set out to make six batches of cookies.
During the preparation of batch number one, he managed to spill an entire cup of packed light brown sugar onto the floor. Naturally, the dogs rushed over to assist. Their little feet became sugar-coated, our feet became sticky, the kitchen became a disaster, and we were laughing.
And that’s when it occurred to me: It’s okay to have sugary feet.
I had bought more than enough sugar. There was room for an occasional (or even first) failure. Nobody was hurt. No permanent damage. No need for a performance improvement plan or a formal corrective action. We cleaned up, tried again, and got it right the next time. And the time after that.
More importantly, we had a moment. A memory. A little reminder that learning doesn’t have to be perfect to be worthwhile.
And yes, he made the top five. YAH!
So here’s my updated life philosophy: Just do it. You’ll survive. Go for it. And if things get messy along the way, it’s okay to have sugary feet.
Sometimes the best parts of life happen when things don’t go according to recipe.
Here’s to taking chances, making mistakes, laughing at the mess, and embracing our sugary feet.
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