At the beginning of my work life, I knew that you had to put together a resume and a cover letter. At the very beginning, I didn’t have much experience to list and could keep my resume to one page. My cover letter was to be the shining star where I could show my value, commitment and can-do attitude. Time went on and my resume got longer. My cover letter did as well with a long list of accomplishments were married to passion for the mission.
As I got into hiring positions, I was primed to look for gaps in resumes. They were to be red flagged. As were job hoppers. You know, those who stayed a year or less. Now, my perspective on that has completely changed and I believe those are somewhat outdated concepts.
Why are they outdated? Primarily because we need to also emphasize mental health and well-being. Does it make sense to stay at a horrible job for several years just to show you can stay at a job for more than a year? No. And, less and less people are tolerating toxic work environments. Sometimes, for financial reasons, you may have no other choice. But it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t leave a bad place, the first chance you get.
Similarly, there may be times when you need down time. Or you need to take care of a sick family member. Staying at a job and being a family care-giver may be severely taxing. Sometimes, one makes a sacrifice. Sometimes, you just need a minute. Resume gaps, for that reason, don’t necessarily disturb me. One may be curious but it shouldn’t be a deal-breaker of any sorts.
The workforce is changing. What we want and expect of life is changing.
Categories: Culture, current events, identity, Leadership, mental health, Psychology, society, work, workplace
psychologistmimi 
Wish everyone had that attitude. Maybe they will get there.
Instead, companies set up automatic processes to catch those red flags – and won’t consider those workers. A young person I know who had a corrected physical problem could not even get an interview with stellar qualifications – because of those gaps sustained while fixing the problem.
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Oh Dear Lord ‘Resume Gaps’ Mine is 14 Years and 9 Months and Still Counting
Yet Sure the First Year and a Half Annual And Sick Leave Counts for the High
Three of Federal Retirement for the Golden Handcuffs Retiring After 5
Job Changes and Promotions Just in 5 Years Then Doubling
my Pay for the Early Federal Benefits of Retiring Disabled
As True i Never Said No And i Didn’t Leave Until i
Was Almost Crawling Away And True Literally
Half Dead Just So Much ‘General Adaption Syndrome’
Otherwise Known As ‘Autism Burnout’ Not Diagnosed
Until i Finally Went Away Became The “Normal me” Assessed
As No Longer Fitting into Society as me Poetic Justice in a Way
For A Commodity Well Used for Government Service Juiced All the
Way Out
of my
Humanity
As True i Was Just
A Canary in A Coal Mine
Humans Are not Evolved to
Be Cogs in A Machine on a Screen
So Far Removed From the Human Element
of Existence As It’s True Computers And Or Long
Distance Avatar Humans Replaced Most All Warm
Touch of Humanity That Literally Heals Anxiety and
Pain When We Closely And Humanly Work Together Normally
as Evolved So Now i Dance And Sing Freely in Oral Tradition on
Paper And Earth Dance Floor Ways Is it Normal Depends on If one
is Human or Not
i Could No Longer Pass
For A Machine Just No Longer
Able to Fit into The Machine
Dead for Heavy Metal That Way in Head For Real…
Green Land Is Where It’s At Dear Miriam Frozen
Nature Much Better Than Frozen Humanity Indeed
As Long As
There is
Green
Left to
Do And Still Land…
i May Have Mentioned it Before
i Rose to an “NF-4” Grade Level
of Pay Equivalent to An “O-4” Major
in the Marines And True Every Once in
A While i Get Saluted At the Gate of the Military
Station Going to Work-Out at the Military Gym and
Sure Sometimes Within Leg Pressing Still Up to 1520 Pounds
After Passing Out Shoes There for 18 Years at the Rental Counter
of the Military Bowling Center Finally Ending Up As Manager
Progressing the Rest of the Way Up the Ladder to Hell and
Sure Heaven
too Those
Last 5 Years There
It Was Like Boom Boom
Boo Boom Boom For Every
Job Change after Being in the Same
Work Space for 18 Years As Remember
Like ‘Rainman’ i Only Wear HaneS UNderwear
(From K-Mart or Walmart) 100 Percent Cotton
Yes True It’s All Religion i Create as i Go Free Now hehe…
Dance Sing
Eat Repeat
And When i Have to
Go Like Forest Gump
i Just Go And ‘ReSuMe’ my Religion AS Such…
Anyway As Always Thanks For ALLoWinG me to
Stop at Your Way Station to Share Another Story So
Excited Tonight Got to See A “Star Link Train” in Night Skies Free
Almost As Exciting As Northern Lights Before We Found Out What
That UFO
Is For Real Hehe..:)
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If only we weren’t such cogs
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If anything, I guess I ought to be thankful that recruitment here in the Philippines still involves humans that actually look at resumes.
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Yes, that is great! Cheers
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