My son is a fairly happy go-lucky boy, who tries to play with everyone, looks out for younger kids, and believed on fairness. He’s beginning to see that the world is a bit unfair as he catches snippets on the local news and is starting to understand the house-buying market in Los Angeles. Which is great, because as his mommy, it took me a while to catch on to the inherent craziness of house-hunting in Los Angeles.
While, I’m annoyed, frustrated and bemused by this process I have willingly (well, that’s debatable) taken on, I’m glad my son can get some early on life lessons that don’t scar him. When we told my son, our house offer was rejected his mouth dropped open and he noted that was unbelievable. We felt similarly. Let me walk you through our craziness.
At this point, I dare to venture we have seen over 100 houses. We have been looking since January. Los Angeles isn’t a single market but consists of of another 100. You have downtown LA, West Adams, Jefferson Park, Echo Park, Silverlake, central city, mid city, West Hollywood, North Hollywood, Park Hills, Vermont Harbor and so on. Then you have the burbs of Huntington Park, Glendale, Downey, Gardena, Torrance, Burbank and so on. Its unnerving. And each area is supposedly the new up and coming part. And once it labelled that you’ll be lucky to spend $650,000 for 1500 square feet. I kid you not.
You know what is the worst of this all? Well, there’s actually too many things to say on this. Most neighborhoods are blah looking. Most neighborhoods will entail an hour commute to your job. Any job: the one you have today or the one you have tomorrow. Most neighborhoods have crazy drivers. But here is the worse of the worse: the sellers often underprice their houses by a lot in the hopes of starting bidding wars. I find this completely disingenuous. Is this part of the LALA Land facade?
Let me give you a prime example. We went to look at an open house at around 3pm. It had started around 1pm and was going till 4pm. It was priced at $480,000 for 1400 square feet or so in a neighborhood that was ok (ish) and that would maybe improve within 5 years. By the time we got to the open house, there were already 6 bids and it was already at $600,000. Yeah, we talked to a fellow buyer about random stuff and left laughing. Do you find this outrageous? I do.
We then went back to another house we had seen and decided to put a bid. We came in above asking price. That day and night we proceeded to get numerous phone calls noting that the seller wanted our first born kid and all our paystubs and taxes for the past year, despite us having a preapproval letter for more than the price of the house and really awesome credit scores. Then they wanted us to use their preferred lender. We said no and despite our offer on its face being the best they rejected it.
Am I bitter? Sure. Who wouldn’t be. But I will tell you this: I believe in karma and I believe in seeking positivity in life. The right place is waiting for me to discover it. My son saw the unfairness of it all but he also saw us get right back up and in the game. And once we find that place, we will get a dog and we will be hus girever family. All good things in time.