Why these two, though? And what does my current TV lineup say about my psyche?
Let’s start with So I Married an Axe Murderer. Mike Myers plays a quirky, commitment-phobic poet who suspects his new wife might just be a serial killer. Casual, right? It’s ridiculous, irreverent, and tinged with a sort of endearing skepticism. You’re laughing at the absurdity of it all, but there’s a nagging sense that maybe we all wonder if our trust issues will catch up with us.
Now, pair that with Groundhog Day—Bill Murray at his best, playing a man stuck in an endless loop of reliving the same day, forced to confront himself over and over again. Phil Connors, in all his sarcastic, “I’m too good for this” glory, can’t escape his own flawed self no matter how many times he wakes up at 6 a.m. to Sonny and Cher.
Both movies feature characters who, at their core, are skeptics with a hint of curmudgeon. But the charm lies in their transformation—or at least their attempt to make peace with the bizarre hand they’ve been dealt.
So, what does this viewing double-header say about me? On some level, it’s a way to explore my own push-pull with the everyday absurdities of life. Maybe I, too, feel a bit like Bill Murray stuck in a loop, wondering if the next day will be any different. Or perhaps I relate to Mike Myers’ character, suspicious that things can go sideways when you least expect it.
But here’s the thing: both movies end on a note of possibility, even joy. Despite their grumbling, cynicism, and wry humor, these characters find their way through the chaos, embracing life with panache. Maybe, like them, I’m drawn to the idea that even when things feel absurd or repetitive, there’s always room for a surprising twist or a new perspective.
Late-night TV, curmudgeon humor, existential dread—it’s all part of the charm. And maybe that’s exactly what I need: a reminder that no matter how many times you’ve lived through the same day or questioned life’s absurdity, there’s always a way to laugh at the absurdity and keep moving forward, with a little bit of panache.
Late-night viewing has its own vibe. It’s that twilight hour where sleep feels close but not quite within reach, and you’re searching for something to match the slightly absurd, dreamlike state you’re drifting into. Enter: *So I Married an Axe Murderer* and *Groundhog Day*. On the surface, these two cult classics are lighthearted, but dive a little deeper and you realize they’ve got curmudgeonly charm, irreverent humor, and a splash of existential dread.
Why these two, though? And what does my current TV lineup say about my psyche?
Let’s start with *So I Married an Axe Murderer.* Mike Myers plays a quirky, commitment-phobic poet who suspects his new wife might just be a serial killer. Casual, right? It’s ridiculous, irreverent, and tinged with a sort of endearing skepticism. You’re laughing at the absurdity of it all, but there’s a nagging sense that maybe we all wonder if our trust issues will catch up with us.
Now, pair that with *Groundhog Day*—Bill Murray at his best, playing a man stuck in an endless loop of reliving the same day, forced to confront himself over and over again. Phil Connors, in all his sarcastic, “I’m too good for this” glory, can’t escape his own flawed self no matter how many times he wakes up at 6 a.m. to Sonny and Cher.
Both movies feature characters who, at their core, are skeptics with a hint of curmudgeon. But the charm lies in their transformation—or at least their attempt to make peace with the bizarre hand they’ve been dealt.
So, what does this viewing double-header say about me? On some level, it’s a way to explore my own push-pull with the everyday absurdities of life. Maybe I, too, feel a bit like Bill Murray stuck in a loop, wondering if the next day will be any different. Or perhaps I relate to Mike Myers’ character, suspicious that things can go sideways when you least expect it.
But here’s the thing: both movies end on a note of possibility, even joy. Despite their grumbling, cynicism, and wry humor, these characters find their way through the chaos, embracing life with panache. Maybe, like them, I’m drawn to the idea that even when things feel absurd or repetitive, there’s always room for a surprising twist or a new perspective.
Late-night TV, curmudgeon humor, existential dread—it’s all part of the charm. And maybe that’s exactly what I need: a reminder that no matter how many times you’ve lived through the same day or questioned life’s absurdity, there’s always a way to laugh at the absurdity and keep moving forward, with a little bit of panache.
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Hehe i See What You Did THere
Repeating Ground Hog Day
With An ‘Axe Murderer’ too
Dear Miriam
SucH iS A
‘Day In A Life’
too Where Chaos
Monkeys are Set Loose
in the
Machine
or Order too
Yet It’s Also
True Being On the
Other End of the
Gun Will Be
Poetic
Justice too
Yet We aRe All
Rats on This Ship
Titanic or Orange
Icebergs the SaMe
AS HiSToRY RePeaTS
The Human Condition
iN Archetypes DarK Thru
LiGHT AGain as Yes Just
Another Ground Hog Day
‘AGHOGDAY’
Free
Dances
And Sings
As Any ‘Baby
Groot’ or Other
‘The Child’ And or
900 Year old “Yoda/Neo” Too
True Will NaTuRaLLY Archetype
in Refrain Away From ‘DarK Triad
Orange
STiNK
STaNK
STuNK Stuff’
Still Room For
Reform A Reformed
Devil Will Always See in
Possibility
Oh What
Hope a
Devil REAL DEViL
ReForMeD WiLL BRinG
Out of ‘AGHOGDAY’ Dreams
iN
FRuiTioN
Now Hmm…
‘First Aid’ is still
Checking my Back-up
Disk Speaking of Ground Hog
Days That Go On For Days And Days…
After the
iMaC
Bites
The Apple
It’s True THeRE
iS ALWaYS A Deeper
Meaning and Purpose
For EYeS And Ears Beyond
Chaos
Monkey’s
Grinding
Organs HAha..:)
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Chaos monkeys indeed
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So I Married an Axe Murderer was filmed right around the corner from my apartment when i was living in San Francisco. I used to walk the half block or so to watch the filming. Yet, somehow I never saw the film. After reading your post, I will have to (finally) check it out.
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This feels like the reminder we all need right now. Everything may feel upside down, but we all still have to keep moving forward in it. Making meaning in a world that doesn’t seem to make one single lick of sense is part of the adventure.
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