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How Late-Night Curmudgeon Humor is Keeping Me Sane

Why these two, though? And what does my current TV lineup say about my psyche?

Let’s start with So I Married an Axe Murderer. Mike Myers plays a quirky, commitment-phobic poet who suspects his new wife might just be a serial killer. Casual, right? It’s ridiculous, irreverent, and tinged with a sort of endearing skepticism. You’re laughing at the absurdity of it all, but there’s a nagging sense that maybe we all wonder if our trust issues will catch up with us.

Now, pair that with Groundhog Day—Bill Murray at his best, playing a man stuck in an endless loop of reliving the same day, forced to confront himself over and over again. Phil Connors, in all his sarcastic, “I’m too good for this” glory, can’t escape his own flawed self no matter how many times he wakes up at 6 a.m. to Sonny and Cher.

Both movies feature characters who, at their core, are skeptics with a hint of curmudgeon. But the charm lies in their transformation—or at least their attempt to make peace with the bizarre hand they’ve been dealt.

So, what does this viewing double-header say about me? On some level, it’s a way to explore my own push-pull with the everyday absurdities of life. Maybe I, too, feel a bit like Bill Murray stuck in a loop, wondering if the next day will be any different. Or perhaps I relate to Mike Myers’ character, suspicious that things can go sideways when you least expect it.

But here’s the thing: both movies end on a note of possibility, even joy. Despite their grumbling, cynicism, and wry humor, these characters find their way through the chaos, embracing life with panache. Maybe, like them, I’m drawn to the idea that even when things feel absurd or repetitive, there’s always room for a surprising twist or a new perspective.

Late-night TV, curmudgeon humor, existential dread—it’s all part of the charm. And maybe that’s exactly what I need: a reminder that no matter how many times you’ve lived through the same day or questioned life’s absurdity, there’s always a way to laugh at the absurdity and keep moving forward, with a little bit of panache.

Late-night viewing has its own vibe. It’s that twilight hour where sleep feels close but not quite within reach, and you’re searching for something to match the slightly absurd, dreamlike state you’re drifting into. Enter: *So I Married an Axe Murderer* and *Groundhog Day*. On the surface, these two cult classics are lighthearted, but dive a little deeper and you realize they’ve got curmudgeonly charm, irreverent humor, and a splash of existential dread.

Why these two, though? And what does my current TV lineup say about my psyche?

Let’s start with *So I Married an Axe Murderer.* Mike Myers plays a quirky, commitment-phobic poet who suspects his new wife might just be a serial killer. Casual, right? It’s ridiculous, irreverent, and tinged with a sort of endearing skepticism. You’re laughing at the absurdity of it all, but there’s a nagging sense that maybe we all wonder if our trust issues will catch up with us.

Now, pair that with *Groundhog Day*—Bill Murray at his best, playing a man stuck in an endless loop of reliving the same day, forced to confront himself over and over again. Phil Connors, in all his sarcastic, “I’m too good for this” glory, can’t escape his own flawed self no matter how many times he wakes up at 6 a.m. to Sonny and Cher.

Both movies feature characters who, at their core, are skeptics with a hint of curmudgeon. But the charm lies in their transformation—or at least their attempt to make peace with the bizarre hand they’ve been dealt.

So, what does this viewing double-header say about me? On some level, it’s a way to explore my own push-pull with the everyday absurdities of life. Maybe I, too, feel a bit like Bill Murray stuck in a loop, wondering if the next day will be any different. Or perhaps I relate to Mike Myers’ character, suspicious that things can go sideways when you least expect it.

But here’s the thing: both movies end on a note of possibility, even joy. Despite their grumbling, cynicism, and wry humor, these characters find their way through the chaos, embracing life with panache. Maybe, like them, I’m drawn to the idea that even when things feel absurd or repetitive, there’s always room for a surprising twist or a new perspective.

Late-night TV, curmudgeon humor, existential dread—it’s all part of the charm. And maybe that’s exactly what I need: a reminder that no matter how many times you’ve lived through the same day or questioned life’s absurdity, there’s always a way to laugh at the absurdity and keep moving forward, with a little bit of panache.

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  1. Hehe i See What You Did THere
    Repeating Ground Hog Day
    With An ‘Axe Murderer’ too

    Dear Miriam

    SucH iS A
    ‘Day In A Life’
    too Where Chaos
    Monkeys are Set Loose

    in the
    Machine
    or Order too

    Yet It’s Also
    True Being On the
    Other End of the
    Gun Will Be

    Poetic

    Justice too

    Yet We aRe All
    Rats on This Ship
    Titanic or Orange
    Icebergs the SaMe

    AS HiSToRY RePeaTS
    The Human Condition
    iN Archetypes DarK Thru
    LiGHT AGain as Yes Just

    Another Ground Hog Day

    ‘AGHOGDAY’

    Free

    Dances
    And Sings
    As Any ‘Baby
    Groot’ or Other
    ‘The Child’ And or
    900 Year old “Yoda/Neo” Too

    True Will NaTuRaLLY Archetype
    in Refrain Away From ‘DarK Triad

    Orange
    STiNK
    STaNK
    STuNK Stuff’

    Still Room For
    Reform A Reformed
    Devil Will Always See in

    Possibility

    Oh What
    Hope a
    Devil REAL DEViL
    ReForMeD WiLL BRinG

    Out of ‘AGHOGDAY’ Dreams

    iN
    FRuiTioN
    Now Hmm…

    ‘First Aid’ is still
    Checking my Back-up
    Disk Speaking of Ground Hog
    Days That Go On For Days And Days…

    After the
    iMaC
    Bites
    The Apple

    It’s True THeRE
    iS ALWaYS A Deeper
    Meaning and Purpose
    For EYeS And Ears Beyond

    Chaos

    Monkey’s
    Grinding

    Organs HAha..:)

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  2. So I Married an Axe Murderer was filmed right around the corner from my apartment when i was living in San Francisco. I used to walk the half block or so to watch the filming. Yet, somehow I never saw the film. After reading your post, I will have to (finally) check it out.

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  3. This feels like the reminder we all need right now. Everything may feel upside down, but we all still have to keep moving forward in it. Making meaning in a world that doesn’t seem to make one single lick of sense is part of the adventure.

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