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I treated myself to ice cream and the Barbie movie: A need for sweetness and meaning

The last year or so, I have stayed away from sweets. Not entirely, but I have veered towards the savory. I used to be known for having a major sweet tooth. But perhaps because the past year has been very difficult, my taste buds changed a bit. I don’t know what really would be the cause/effect here, but I know my tastes changed.

Then I had surgery, and my sweet tooth came roaring back. I ordered four different pints of ice cream, as well as snickerdoodles and chocolate chip cookies.

Then, I just had to go watch the Barbie movie. After all, I love the color pink. However, I must admit I’ve never owned a Barbie doll. I also don’t like musicals. Yet, I needed to watch Barbie at this point in time in my life, and I liked it. Surprisingly, I really liked it. It was irreverent yet had heart and sentimentality. It was filled to the brim with sarcasm. Yet, I felt pulled in. Also, I must admit I totally have a crush on Ryan Gosling.

If you didn’t like Moulin Rouge, you probably won’t like Barbie. This movie is surreal and you must be in the right headspace. In case you didn’t know, the movie is about a barbie (stereotypical) doll who travels to the real world looking to fix the Barbie world an in turn she ends up looking for meaning in life.

The thing is, we’re all on that journey. That’s what it means to be human. As for my sugar need. I think I needed to taste sweetness again.

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  1. my Wife Loved Her Barbie Doll Yet Living in Rather Severe Poverty
    Without Water and Electricity And the Other Larger Parts of First

    World Problems

    She Only Had One

    Barbie Dear Miriam

    Yet She Really Really
    Loved That Barbie Doll

    Yet Hell No She Wouldn’t
    Go to the ‘Barbie Movie’ as i Am
    Surely Interested in the Anthropological/
    Social Sciences UnderPinnings of the Movie

    (She Said the Barbies in the Movie Weren’t
    Real Barbies And Too Much Pink For Her)

    Similar to the Mouse Utopia Experiment
    Orchestrated By ‘James B. Calhoun’ Back in The

    60’s Named the ‘Beautiful Ones’ Where Basically
    ‘Ken Doll Incel Mice’ ‘Who’ Lost Interest in Defending

    Their Territories When An All You Can Eat Buffet Free Was
    Provided Like ‘Soma’ in the Rat Utopia That Quickly Populated

    Yet Started Declining as the Males No Longer Exercised Social Roles
    Losing Interest in Reproduction And Actually Spent All Day Long Just

    Grooming Themselves Thereby Getting the Nickname of ‘The Beautiful Ones’

    Without Any Scars Fighting for Their Territories And Reproductive Opportunities

    Meanwhile The Females Paired Up And Got More Aggressive With Each Other

    Reproduction Ceased

    And Soon the Mouse

    Society Went Extinct…

    Hmm, Back in my Youth my
    Father Seemed Afraid i Too might
    Become a ‘Ken Doll’ So He Suggested
    i Join the Military like He Did in the 50’s
    to Become a ‘Real Man’ As It’s True Never Saw
    Him the Rugged Law Enforcement Dude With
    Fear for 46 Years Even Before He Dropped Dead he

    Casually told
    my Cousin
    Don’t Think
    i’m Gonna make
    it And He Didn’t

    He Always Had a Cigarette
    in His Hand Driving LooKinG
    Cooler Than Frigging James Bond
    Just Always So at Ease Unflappable Unlike me then

    Hehe Well Honestly to tell the Truth By All Empirical
    Measure Dancing Solo everywhere i Go For Nearly a
    Decade Now i’m Actually More Fearless in Not Worried About
    What other Folks Think About me Now than He Ever Dreamed of In Life

    True Fear Will Take Away All Wings of Life as i Surely Couldn’t Fly before
    On Terrestrial Land Floating Then And While i Dance And Sing The Day
    Away Higher and Higher he Watched NASCAR Going Round and Round
    While i Spiral and Never Get Dizzy hehe And That’s Okay Selling NASCAR

    Stuff Kept Him Going 11 Years into Retirement at the Flea Market as
    It’s Really Important When You are on the Asperger’s Spectrum to
    Have Some Kind of Special Interest to Stay Focused Dance and Song

    Free for me His More Culturally related to the Deep South States of Course Hehe

    Anyway What A Surprise to Find Out After He Passed Away That His Worry About
    me Probably Came From Deep Within Him as my cousin Shared A Black And

    White Photo of Him Most Definitely A Dark Haired Ken Doll What You Can’t
    See in the Black And White Photo Are the Gulf Green Eyes That Told My Mother

    When She Met Him
    Whoever Was Married
    to Him was the Luckiest

    Barbie Ever as True she Won
    Best Figure in 11th and 12 Grade
    With An Other Worldly Small Waist
    And Other Out of Proportion Measurements
    Like A Dark Haired Barbie With Glasses too hehe

    i Was an Ugly Duckling Yet It’s True Almost Four Decades
    Ago And Around 74 Pounds Lighter The Women Folks
    Ragged me in the Patriarchal Military Work Environment
    For Being A Ken Doll Like my Father Before He Joined the
    Army And Packed on 70 Pounds too hehe Never a Ken Doll Again…

    Yet Still Typically the Secretaries Always Volunteered to Do his
    Paperwork in the Law Enforcement World i Don’t Think He ever

    Had the
    Gift like
    i Did of
    Ugly Duckling

    So Weak Looking

    With Four Eyes
    And All of that Too
    Gifted By my Mother Hehe

    Among Many Other Functional
    Disabilities in Social Circles Square
    Peg in those Shapes For Sure then

    The Bottom Floor is A Best Place
    For A Mouse to Start to Truly EVeNTUaLLY Become A ‘Real Man’…
    of Empathy and Compassion For the Still Marginalized Among

    US With SMiLes…

    Other than That
    i Didn’t Wanna do
    Any Spoilers For
    The Movie as Usual i
    Reviewed The Wiki Cliff Notes
    Complete Cheap Skate Without A Movie Ticket hehe Anyway
    Besides That Dear Lord Trailers Give Most oF it ALL Away These Days..;)

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