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Why I Left the Circus (and Took the Palace Keys with Me)

There’s a Turkish proverb that has been tumbling around my brain like mismatched socks in the dryer: “When a clown moves into a palace, he doesn’t become a king. The palace becomes a circus.”

Now, I don’t know for certain if it’s Turkish, but frankly, I don’t care. It’s truth. It’s wisdom wrapped in a riddle, served with a strong shot of espresso. And I’ve seen it happen more times than I can count.

Let me paint you a picture. You’re working hard, doing your thing, contributing to the world like a responsible adult. Then poof! One day, someone in a position of power (usually freshly installed, sometimes shiny with LinkedIn-approved lingo) starts juggling ideas with the finesse of a tipsy mime. Strategy meetings feel like improv night gone wrong. Logic exits stage left. Suddenly, your work life has a laugh track you didn’t subscribe to.

Congratulations. The palace is now a circus.

You might think, “Well, we can just clownproof the palace.” Good luck with that. Because when the jester’s running the show, the court starts wearing red noses and the kingdom gets rewired for slapstick. I’ve seen it in nonprofit organizations, corporate offices, boardrooms, and even social movements. A charismatic disruptor who confuses chaos for innovation can turn vision into vaudeville in record time.

And here’s the kicker: That’s part of the reason I stepped into leadership in the first place. I didn’t want to sit ringside and watch the elephants stampede the mission. I didn’t want to be “led” by folks who confuse volume for value or mistake titles for wisdom. I wanted out of the tent.

So I became the ringmaster of my own show. Or tried to. Because here’s the thing—they don’t teach you in leadership school (if such a thing even existed outside TED Talks and overpriced seminars): leadership is less about sparkle and more about steering. It’s making sure the palace stays a place of purpose, not pratfalls.

To anyone out there dealing with a palace-turned-circus, I see you. Maybe it’s time to take the reins. Or at least find the off switch on the calliope.

And to the clowns who think they’re kings? Enjoy the juggling act. But some of us are building castles that don’t need a punchline.

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  1. “Palace-Orange-Turded-Circus”
    Apparently i’ve Been Observing
    The Boob-Tube News a Bit Much

    Dear Miriam Coloring my Perceptions

    Differently as a ‘3 Dog Night’ “Show Must

    Go on” Surely Does in Face-Palm-Forest-THiCK Ways

    Yet It’s So True This is No Isolated

    Meme of the Clown Archetype

    of the Human Condition

    Bringing Chaos That

    Will Ultimately Likely
    Lead to Drastic Change

    It’s Like Every Other DArK PArt of
    Existence Partner in Magnetic Polarizing
    Connections is STiLL LiGHT CoLoRinG The

    ‘Big Top’ Differently Still To Come Yes Even at the

    Very Bottom of the Orange Big Flop Yet the Bigger Picture

    On the Horizon Far Beyond Our Tiny Little Bitty ‘Yippy’ Human Details

    Is the Rest of
    Nature and
    The Real
    Karma
    of Action
    And Consequence
    In ‘Real Time’ Effects Still To come

    Whenever Any Wayward PArt Moves Out
    of Balance the Rest of the Pond Moves In

    To Still the Waters of the Stone’s Destination

    on the Bottom
    Of the Ocean Floor

    It’s A Beautiful Day in
    ‘Eden’ all the Furred and
    Winged Creatures Just

    Leave Nature’s Droppings

    On
    Human
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    ‘Eve’ Pass the Popcorn
    The Human Circus is At
    Work Again While We continue to
    ‘Afternoon DeLiGHT’

    freely play

    Hehe for
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    Long as
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    Non-Tariffed Popcorn Lasts…

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