To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance

“To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance!” Oscar Wilde

Just a gentle reminder to love and appreciate yourself. Often before others can love you, you need to love yourself. And, it’s not a fling but a lifelong endeavor.

Categories: Psychology

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  1. “To love oneself is the
    beginning of a



    -Oscar Wilde

    Oh My Lord i Just Heard That
    Quote in “The Nutty Professor”
    “Old Black Magic” YouTube Song Scene
    With “The Nutty Professor” Jerry Lewis

    Playing His Alter Ego Buddy Love

    More of the Mr. Hyde

    Version of Dr. Jekyll too

    Where the Wonderful Oscar
    Wild Quote Was Used By A
    Woman He Was Hitting on as

    Pejorative Rather Than Life Long

    Aim to Live Life Solo Or Together True
    Whole Complete Just Enough As Is As

    It’s True There is

    More Unlimited to
    Give, Share, Care
    Freely Greater This Way

    For An Empty Ego

    More Often



    To Fill Up What

    Is Never Filled Up Within

    By Free Agency of Loving

    Just For The Sake Of Loving This Breath…

    It’s Funny How Some Philosophers Attempt
    to Discard Parts of Humanity That Even Allow
    Us to Survive As Social Apes At All… Leave no Part



    or Light


    More 3 DiMeNSioNaL
    Than One Dimensional Now…

    Ah YeS iNdeed Full Theatre of Zen Ego True..:)


  2. The sentiment may sound pretty and may be generally accepted and all but I think the cult of self love has done tremendous damage. We’ve become a society of narcissists and crybabies, many of us both. Self love is unnecessary, in my slightly-less-than-humble opinion. We already instinctively put ourselves first, even when we appear to be putting others first – our sacrifices for others being expenses for what in the end is a net benefit to ourselves. If you want others to love and appreciate you, a better start might be to love and appreciate them. But I guess that assumes “them” are actual people in one’s physical life rather than Youtube channel subscribers so maybe I’m touting an outdated solution. Still, I think there’s far too much self love and I can’t help but cringe when I see Simone Biles being lauded for ditching her teammates or Emma Watson for being “self-partnered”. And don’t even get me started on the whole personal truth thing. In my day a personal truth that was inconsistent with actual truth was called a delusion and it was considered a symptom of mental illness. Now it’s given the same validity as actual truth because, after all, we’re all entitled to have things be what we want them to be, not what they actually are.


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