There was a time when “looking up” meant stars, clouds, and maybe the occasional airplane dragging a banner for a pizza place. Now? Now it’s satellites. Roughly 15,000 of them, as of January 2026. And about two-thirds belong to Starlink. Which feels a little like discovering that most […]
There’s a Japanese concept called Kaizen. It means continuous improvement. Not the flashy kind. Not the TED Talk kind. The quiet, daily, incremental kind. The kind that happens in small moments, awkward conversations, and uncomfortable realizations. The kind that doesn’t announce itself with confetti. Just steady becoming. Lately, […]
Growing up, I was told in no uncertain terms that you had to wash your hair every single day. This was not presented as a suggestion. This was gospel. Daily hair washing was right up there with brushing your teeth and saying thank you. You didn’t question it. […]
I recently discovered that I suffer from a very real condition. It’s called junk blindness. This is not in the DSM (yet), but if it were, my office would be the case study. You see, no matter how many times I “clean” my workspace, paper abounds. It multiplies. […]
There’s a quote often attributed to Sun Tzu that has been haunting me lately: An evil man will burn his own nation to the ground to rule over the ashes. I’m not talking about current politics. Truly. I’m talking about what I’ve seen up close, at the granular, […]
Breaking news from the Garden State. New Jersey is bringing cursive handwriting back to elementary schools. Third through fifth graders will once again loop, swirl, and dramatically cross their t’s like it’s 1897 and the fountain pen lobby finally got its way. On one hand Gen Z famously […]
Where can you reduce clutter in your life? This grand January snowstorm came in hot. Well. Cold. But you know what I mean. It was nonstop. Relentless. The kind of snow that doesn’t gently fall. It commits. It stacks itself. It blocks your car. It cancels your plans […]
I live in a housefull of heartbeat and voices,laughter ricocheting off walls,footsteps tapping rhythms up and down stairs. And yetthere are nightswhen the noise dissolvesand I am alonein a room packed with people. It’s strange, right?To feel invisiblewhile standing center stagein your own life. Pain has a way […]
Here I am, perched on the edge of my kitchen counter, coffee in hand, trying to figure out how to guide my very practical, very determined, very my son through the college selection process. It’s like being a therapist for someone I gave birth to, and trust me, […]
Somewhere between Instagram’s new polish button and the Kardashians walking into a bar pretending to sip a pint like they’ve done it every Tuesday since 1997, humanity has entered its most absurd era: the Age of Curated Imperfection. Yes, apparently imperfection is now “in.” The smudged eyeliner, the […]
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