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Shame on me for even considering it

How do you balance work and home life?

I used to scoff at the notion of work/life balance. If you like work well enough, it can become part of your life. There need not be a separation between life and work.

Now, I’m not too sure I feel that way. There is a need to box certain things in one’s world. Unless you’re the U.S. President (or other world leader), you should attempt to separate out work. Compartmentalize it. I didn’t for the longest time, and I came to pay the consequences that were varied. And, trust me, there were consequences.

Sadly, I had learned that lesson, and yet I almost made the same mistake of taking on a work “project” that would have disturbed a work/life equilibrium. Shame on me for even considering it. I should have said no from the start and not gone through the consideration motions.

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  1. Just like what Dad said months after my mother died: ā€œWhen you die, the place you worked at will simply get a new person to replace you the next day. But family? Theyā€™ll remember you forever.ā€

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  2. Ah Yes Dear Miriam

    If We Donā€™t Balance

    Work and Home Life

    Eventually Life Will

    Balance Us With or Without

    A Fall Out of Gravity Out Of Orbit

    of Our

    Worlds
    Swept Away
    Into Oblivion

    With A Chance of
    Course For A Return
    oF A New Creation

    True The 5th Decade
    Is Assessed As the
    Decade Most Likely

    To
    Fall
    Apart

    to Let Humpty
    Dumpty Try
    to Rearrange
    Pieces Left of The ā€˜SHeLLā€™ā€¦.

    Looking For And Perhaps Even
    Finding A New Love For Life God

    Yes Never Experienced RiSinG OuT
    of DarK Oblivion oh the Silver Linings

    Out
    of
    Gold

    ā€˜Pieces
    of Eightā€™ into
    Colors of New FLoWeRS

    A Soul We Cannot Afford
    to ā€˜Defaultā€™ on Now For Real..:)

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